Many people just assume that foreplay is what happens in the bedroom, right before you are going to engage in sex. And many times, sadly, that is what it becomes. A monotonous 20 minutes of trying to get the woman aroused enough to do the deed and be done with it. The same kissing of the neck, groping like teenagers, and undressing time and time again, So many people fail to realize that foreplay can be so much more. it can start from the time you wake up in the morning and end that night if you so choose. (and no, I do not mean 12 hours of making out!)
After showering, take time to dry off and apply lotion to your entire body while sitting nude in the living room before leaving to get dressed. Guess who's mind will be quickly wandering? When you get dressed in the morning, instead of the usual jeans and a T-shirt, go out of your way to wear that favorite outfit you know he loves. Take the time to fix yourself up for no apparent reason. He will be thinking about it all day trust me. As you pass in the kitchen or walking down the hall, lightly brush against each other just enough to say "I want you" but not to give in. One of my other favorite things is sending random texts of things you want. It's so much easier when you aren't in front of the person to tell them what you like. So take advantage of it!
Many women love to hold hands. A simple walk holding hands or wrapping your arms around them can mean a lot more then you would think. Public displays of affection (as long as it isn't the hot and steamy go get a damn room type of PDA) can carry over to the bedroom as your SO will feel more confident and assured that you don't mind others knowing they are yours.
Yes, I know it sounds silly that these not so sexual things can actually be considered foreplay but give it a try. There are so many simple things you can do that will build the foundation for the right moment. And in the end have your SO begging to actually hit the sheets instead of teasing!
It works on me.
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